“Brimming with compassion, humor, solid information, and, most of all, love, She/Him/Us takes the reader into the harrowing experience of a mom with a trans-identified daughter who knows that her daughter is not, in fact, trans. This memoir is moving, engrossing, and captivating, and is bound to be a comfort and inspiration to many.”

Lisa Marchiano, LCSW

Author of Motherhood and When Kids Say They’re Trans

“Dr. Lisa Bellot offers a courageous and deeply personal account of her journey as both a psychiatrist and a mother navigating her daughter’s struggle with gender identity. This is a story of hope and love—a memoir that makes an essential contribution to the ongoing discourse on gender and mental health.”

Stella O’Malley

Psychotherapist and Author

“Psychiatrist Lisa Bellot shares an unflinching account of parenting a trans-identified teen while her instincts whispered, ‘something is not right here.’ Told with honesty and grace, this memoir blends personal experience with medical and psychological information parents desperately need but rarely receive. This book is a powerful and necessary read for anyone trying to make sense of today’s precarious youth gender landscape.”

Sasha Ayad, M.Ed., LPC

Therapist and Author